Dear Ask A Man,
Do you find women are comfortable pleasuring themselves and sharing that with you and how does that make you feel? For example, do you prefer women that do masturbate or do not and why?
Submitted by H.S Toronto Ontario, CA



Dear H.S,

I find that women that masturbate are more in tune to their own sexual needs, and know how to incorporate that into a healthy sexual relationship. Women that masturbate are more comfortable with themselves and in turn that eliminates many problems that may arise from a lack of communication caused by inhibition. In fact, having your partner masturbate with you is an extremely erotic experience. I would have to say that I prefer women that do masturbate. They are more open minded, sexually adventurous and they communicate their needs rather than hope that we can figure it out on our own.

Craig, 20 Something...
Hi,

I have never heard a women specifically tell me that they masturbate even jokingly. I am sure it wouldn't bother me and it might be a little exciting to learn new ways to please a woman.
Mark, 30 Something...

Hi H.S.,

I LOVE to watch women get themselvs off, with or without my help! It's a total voyeuristic turn-on to watch a woman do what she enjoys and bring herself to climax.
Jack, 40 Something...

Hi,

If you mean a woman pleasuring herself in my presence, I don't consider that masturbation, I consider it forplay and its one hell of a turn on. It shows that she doesnt have stupid inhibitions. If she masturbates good for her practice makes perfect.
Sssh Guest Panelist David, 40 Something...

Masturbating when I'm there? If she is comfortable with it, no problem. I'll just get to work in another spot. :-)
Alfred, 50 Something...




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