Dear Ask a Man;
What do you find most sexy about women and why?
Submitted by M.V. London, UK



Dear M.V,

I would not be able to pin point one particular aspect that I find sexy. To me it's a lot of things, the softness of her skin, the strand of hair that hangs in front of her face when she is flustered, the way her clothes hug the curves of her body, her delicate touch, her nurturing ways...I could go on and on. Each individual has their own sexy attributes and that in itself is the sexiest thing of all, variety.

Craig, 20 Something...
Hello London,

Intellect. I find it very sexy when a woman is smart and can carry on a decent conversation. Pretending to be dumb so that the man can feel superior may have worked years ago, but I don't think it works today and
it certainly wouldn't work on me.
Mark, 30 Something...

Hi,

The carefully orchestrated "tease" is my biggest lure. Just enough to get ya interested, but not so unacheivable as to be taunting or frustrating. Too easy? Forget about it! Where's the sport in that? To hard to get? Skip that as well. Lotsa fish in the sea!
Jack, 40 Something...

Hi M.V.,

Legs, ass, tits, pretty face, killer curves, and the confidence to use them on me.
Sssh Guest Panelist David, 40 Something...
Hi,

What is sexy? A laugh-laden, bawdy attitude toward sex. I cite the case of the actress Angie Dickinson: She was in much demand as a talk-show guest when in her late-5os, early-60s, and men frequently commented how sexy she was. It wasn't her ravishing beauty - she never was that stunning - but her laughing, lets-have-fun attitude whenever a sexual theme was raised.

Most men spend their adult lives trying to avoid anti-sexual, judgmental women - school teacher, mother, librarian, Cindy - the prissy tight-ass in high school, whatever. If the word "stern" applies, men run.
Alfred, 50 Something...





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