Dear Ask A Man,

Why don't men like "nice girls"? I've always heard that men will sleep with bitchy, high-maintenance women, but would never marry one, yet mine and my friends experiences have been very different. ~ So Confused, USA



Dear Confused,

Guys that sleep with bitchy, high-maintenance women just want to get laid. They think that the woman is so mean that they won't hurt their feelings when they don't settle down with them, or even call them the next day. You don't want to be with a guy like that, trust me. Hold out for your mister right. He is out there, you just have to find him.
Craig, 20 Something...

Dear Confused,

I think that men do like nice girls, when all is said and done. But we may spend a lot of time trying to sleep with high-maintenance women just because we think that they might look good on our arm. I know for me, there came a point when that was no longer enough: the fact that she might have a nice pair of whatever was not enough to make up for the bitchiness.
Scott, 30 Something...


Hi Confused,

Au Contraire! The majority of men DO end up marrying a "nice girl" (after having slept with a string of bitchy ones)! Unless you want to do a major personality overhaul to become a "bitch", I'd suggest you simply be your sweet self until the right fellow comes along! And, your revenge is this: the guys that marry the high-maintenance gals end up with a lifetime of misery, as do the gals, as their mates never come up to their expectations!
Jack, 40 Something...

Hello,

At the end of the day, generally it's the nice girls we take home to our parents and marry. Don't worry so much about this, just be yourself.
Alfred, 50 Something...


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