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| Dear Ask A Man, I caught my man masturbating in the shower the other morning. I asked him if it felt better then sex with me. He denied the whole thing and we got into a huge fight. Why would he lie about it, I know what I saw. Now I feel like I just don't I turn him on anymore. What can I do? ~ Ditched for Mr. Happy, CA |
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| Men masturbate, it's just a fact. We do it, daily, rain or shine. It has nothing to do with whether a woman turns us on or not at all. It's natural and healthy. However he may feel like it's dirty or embarrassing, due to his how he was raised. Try talking with him and letting him know you are ok with it. If you do it, let him know. If you don't, you should try it with him. Mutual masturbation can be exciting and a great turn on. You may find it is an exciting addition to your sex life. Craig, 20 Something... |
Well, Ditched, You caught your man in a very personal moment, which I am sure was embarrassing enough; then to add insult to injury you wanted to discuss the whole thing with him. Masturbating has nothing to do with how good or bad your sex life is, it’s just something that men do. Just remember that there are two types of men in the world: those who masturbate and those who lie and say they don't. If you ever catch him in the act again, just walk away and keep it to yourself; or, if he sees you walk in on him just smile and offer to help him finish. Scott, 30 Something... |
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Hello, Don't worry your pretty little head about it. It has nothing to do with you and everything to do with us. We just love to masturbate. It's a great stress reliever and a fact of life. Alfred, 50 Something... |
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