Dear Ask A Man,

Is it true that men won't respect you once you've has sex with them. ~ Thanks, M.V. from The Netherlands



Not at all. The only type of guy that won't respect you after sex, is the one that doesn't respect himself. If your comfortable with yourself and know what you want, then no one can make you feel bad about having sex.
Craig, 20 Something...

Hi M.V.,

I don't think that men won't respect you once you have sex with them. But if the man was only with you because he wanted you for sex, you may find that once he got it that might be the last you hear from him
Scott, 30 Something...


Hello,

Not true at all! Sure, if a woman picks up a guy in a bar and takes him home that same night and has sex with him, that might result in loss of respect. But, having sex is part of the natural, healthy process of building an intimate relationship. Without it, things would never develop very far, would they?
Jack, 40 Something...

No, unless of course we are only looking for sex. If we truly care about you and want to pursue a relationship whether you sleep with us or not, we will respect you.
Alfred, 50 Something...


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