Dear Ask a Man,
What is a "good girl" or "bad girl" to you? Do you have a preference?
Submitted by J.B. Tampa, FL



Dear J.B.,

To me a "good girl" is a woman that contains a little inhibition. For example: A "good girl" will think about jumping up on the bar and dancing, or may consider entering that wet t-shirt contest, but that's as far as it goes. On the other hand, a "bad girl" is the one without any inhibitions and doesn't hesitate to jump up on the bar and do a little strip tease, or enter that wet t-shirt contest and end up getting naked to boot. There is a fine line between being a "good girl" and a "bad girl", and most women are flirting with that line on a daily basis. I am attracted to both types, but if I were made to choose, I would have to go with the "good girl".

Craig, 20 Something...
Hey J.B.,

A good girl is a shy, reserved, almost to the point of being submissive person. A bad girl is wild, untamed and naughty. Every guy talks about wanting a bad girl, most want a good girl with a little badness thrown in. Personally, I like a good girl with a little bad girl thrown in.
Mark, 30 Something...

Hi,

"Good girls" don't take risks; "Bad Girls" do. Be it a little fooling around in a public place, or sometimes dressing a little risque. I always prefer girls that are a little "bad" as it is a way for them to be spontanious and creative (not to mention, I reap the side benefits of girls being bad when I am in their company!).
Jack, 40 Something...

Hi,

Good girl ??? Bad girl??? Do you mean a bad girl fucks everything in sight, a good girl sticks by your side and is great in bed. I'll take the good girl any day.
Sssh Guest Panelist David, 40 Something...
Hi,

They are all potentially good - if they're bad enough.

Alfred, 50 Something...




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