Dear Ask A Man,
When you are at a bar or club what type of women catches your attention and why? Describe what it is you often notice first or look for or just sit back and watch?
Submitted by Sue from NYC



Dear Sue,

I usually notice the women that are confident and comfortable in their surroundings. They are having fun, laughing and enjoying themselves.  I usually envision the fun I would be having if I were with them and that is the initial thing that attracts me to them. The first thing that catches my attention is a women’s sexiness.  There could be a thousand people dancing and I will notice a sexy woman from a hundred yards away. Whether it’s the way she is dressed, the way she’s dancing, whatever, that’s the first thing that catches my attention.
Craig, 20 Something...

Hi,

A woman that carries herself with confidence is always attractive.
Mark, 30 Something...


Hi NYC,

Well, I haven't trawled bars since disco was king, but in the dim memory banks from the late 1970's I remember the women that caught my eye was a sexy (not slutty) outfit, a cheerful smile, good eye contact with other people, and, of course, a nice body.
Jack, 40 Something...


Hi,

To be honest If she's a brunette I notice immediately. The” type” doesn't matter much,  all types are attractive in some way.
Sssh Guest Panelist David, 40 Something...

Hello,

In this order, her face, that she is laughing, the intelligence of what she says, her figure...
Alfred, 50 Something...




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