Dear Ask a Man,

My Question is; Throughout the years of your sexual experience, what types of changes have you discovered in what you look for in a woman? For example, when you were younger versus now that you are older and wiser.
Submitted by G.D., NYC, NY



Hello G.D.,

When I was in my teens, my attraction was nothing more than physical. I went for the obvious, big breasts, nice butt and a pretty face. I know it is quite shallow, however that's what a teenage boy thinks about. As I finished school, I was lucky enough to become involved with a woman that changed my whole view. She had a personality, she was caring and she liked me for who I was. The concept was totally new to me, but it didn't take long for me to see the light. Now I look for a good sense of humor, a kind heart, someone who is goal oriented and self sufficient. I have realized that with time beauty will fade, but inner beauty lasts a lifetime.
Craig, 20 Something...
Hi,

As I've gotten older, its less animal sex and more loving sex. I am sure I don't consciously look for something different, but I'm sure subconciously I do.
Mark, 30 Something...

Hi G.D.,

I personally went from enjoying "exotic types" to your standard "girl next door" look and vibe. It was fun playing with eskimos and cossacks while young, but now, I am more interested in finding like-mindedness and socio-political similarities.
Jack, 40 Something...

Hi,

Easy question. Nothing has changed in what I look for in a woman over the years. It's always been good personalty and good looks.
Sssh Guest Panelist David, 40 Something...
Hello G.D.

I find the drive to conquer diminishes and the desire for mutual-fun increases. It is a more desperate business when you are younger and more an entertainment as you age.
Alfred, 50 Something...



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