If your having difficulty getting into the grove of pleasing your man with oral sex, try it at your leisure, not just during love making. Anything too routine is bound to get boring. We've come up with a few ideas to help you rejuvenate things.

· Take a long drive to some special place, and while he's driving snuggle up close to him and tell him to be sure to concentrate on driving. Put your head in his lap and start unzipping. Remind him again to keep his eyes on the road. You may never be allowed to drive again when you're together.

· Give him a layback and relax honey session with your tongue during halftime when he's home watching his favorite sports game. He may never leave home to watch sports again.

· Join him in the shower, massage him while you wash every part of his body and once rinsed, start licking the water away. He might surprise you in the shower next time.

· Go with him to his favorite fishing hole and before he gets completely into the thralls of fishing, tell him you want to nibble on him first. You may be invited to go fishing again soon.

· When he comes home after having a long hard stressful day, listen as usual saying uh huh, but between the uh huhs start messaging him anywhere and tell him to keep talking, you're listening. All the while making your move to his groin area and kissing away his stress. Next time you ask, "How was your day dear?" he'll be grinning ear to ear.

· At a special yet boring get-together that you made him attend with you, keep your eye on him and when opportunity strikes, grab his hand pulling him into the bathroom with you. Lock the door and let the fun begin. Next time you tell him you need him attend something with you, he'll probably volunteer before you finish the sentence.

· Set an evening aside for a movie and popcorn night at home for just the two of you. Light a few candles, get the movie and popcorn ready in advance. Don't forget the beer or coke on ice. When you push play, on comes the porn movie you don't really want to watch anyway (and if you do, all the better) but you know he wants to watch it. So as the porn's playing, you play with him in your mouth. Don't forget the ice can be useful here too. Movie night just got better than he ever dreamed.

· He calls you at home saying he's working late and will probably be home by 7:00. Before seven, you arrive at the office. Do the usual chit chat routine, telling him to stay in his seat while you walk over and get on your knees and aim to please. He'll never look at that office or chair the same.