Oral sex is one of those "hush-hush" topics that I assumed women didn't talk about because they didn't like doing it. I remember in years past most of my girlfriends reacting to our general conversations as "ooouuu" versus "yum." Of course everyone's entitled to there own opinion. I'd like to think most of the reactions were simply for show, due to their embarrassment of discussing such illicit pleasure.

Going down on a man is very empowering for the giver and very pleasurable for the receiver, so what's not to like? The important thing when approaching or performing oral sex on your partner, is the unconditional trust you should feel with each other. Open communication is a must. Try it, talk about it, and learn from it. Find out what each of you like or dislike, and remember to respect your partner's opinion. There are no preordained sets of rules that apply to everyone, simply each individual's choice of comfort levels. That being said let's get down to the nitty-gritty of Oral Sex…

We have some great idea's and little tricks for you to try, and they are all aimed to please!

Helpful Hints

· Keep you hand wrapped around the base of the penis. This will help you control the length of the penis you insert into your mouth. Deep throat really is a myth; you'll find your own depth comfort zone.

· Have your partner hold the base of the penis for you. This helps to free your hands to use elsewhere or get into a more comfortable position. Also who knows what the penis likes better than the man himself! Let him work it, watch and learn.

· Experiment with soft touches of the lips and long lingering licks with your tongue making him anticipate the rhythm you're going to set…fast or slow. Ask him what he likes and see if he can answer in the mist pleasure.

· Stroke the penis by hand in the same or opposite rhythm of your mouth's movements. Remember how much you like to be stroked and feel the strokes your giving him, set the pace.

· Fondle his genitals or simply hold them, not squeezing too hard…unless he asks you to of course. Rub his thighs with your fingertips. Men like to be touched as much as women do.

· Let the saliva from you mouth run down his shaft, this is no time to try to be neat. Most men like the wet moist feeling your generating. Think of your saliva as a lubricant and keep the juices flowing.

· While moving your mouth up and down, let your lips flow completely around the rim of the penis creating an in and out sensation. Along the rim of the penis head is a most sensitive area, which deserves special attention unto itself.

· Try flicking your hard pointed tongue quickly back and forth against the under carriage area at the head of the penis or try the bottom area of the shaft near the testicles.

· When your partner is moaning and bucking in pleasure and you're not yet ready for ejaculation, backing off allows him to peak not cum. Changing your rhythm bringing him down leaving him open for another peak later with your next set of moves. Trust your feeling here to know the right time to make the moves. While he enjoys the roller coaster ride you have him on, you'll feel like a powerful control goddess.

· When your partner is moaning and bucking in pleasure, if you want ejaculation at this time, try not to change your rhythm. Consistency helps to keep the excitement building. What you're doing is working well right now and you want to keep his concentration right where is, headed for oblivion.

· When your partner spews, don't stop licking and sucking immediately. Continue you magic as you feel his thrusting and pulsing. Follow him into the aftermath of pleasure for another moment or two while his orgasm lingers.

· Let your partner's juice flow over your tongue with your mouth open. Gracefully let the juices flow off your tongue, out of your mouth or swallow.

· Strong tasting cum may become milder in flavor by a simple change in diet, such as adding pineapple and other fruits to the menu.

· Place soft kisses on your partner's testicles. Pull the testicles slowly and gently into your mouth while he pumps his rock hard cock to fulfillment and release.

Tricks of the Trade

· Let your partner release his hot juices on your face or body. Place his cock between your breasts and now that your mouth is free, talk dirty to him and watch his manhood swell and burst. It's a beautiful sight.

· Have your partner stand in front of you. You get the full figure view and more mobility to perform your art on his rod.

· With you on your back and a few pillows for support, have you partner kneel beside you making you eye level with his manhood, let the fun begin.
· Experiment with the lights on and off. Lights on offer the visual pleasure of watching your beautiful mouth work on his body. Lights off offer the fantasy of what you doing of going to do next as he can only feel you movements.

· Give him the perfect view of your womanly features by straddling your partner in the opposite direction with you on top kneeling over him. He also gets great access to you for inserting his fingers in your hot spot and more.

Adding Pizzazz


· Wear the bright red lipstick you've always admired and never dared to try. Making your lips look sexy will make blowing him more fun. Why not add the spiked heels and sexy outfit to match.

· Drinking something hot or cold before inserting the penis into your mouth will generate unique sensations.

· Adding flavor, such as chocolate syrup or mint liqueur, can be rewarding for both you and him.

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