In a word: yes! You should!

If you’re reading this, you’re either, a) with a man you have not done this with yet, and wonder how to introduce the topic, or, b) someone who has never tried this, or c) have tried this before and had negative results. There’s no reason having to do with health or hygiene that should prevent you from having sex during your period. The main reason most women tend to avoid this activity is because they fear their partner may find it unpleasant or unappealing.

There is no denying it: some men find it gross, even disgusting. In the Hell’s Angels motorcycle gang, it used to be the norm for new initiates to have to perform cunnilingus on a woman having her period: this was called the “Red Badge of Courage.” So this kind of attitude underscores the taboo associated with menstrual sex.

But seriously, most men have done it, and enjoyed it. Or if they have not tried it, they don’t like the thought of it because they’re imagining they won’t like it. But I’m betting you’re with a man who has a sense of adventure, and who might only need a minimal amount of coaxing to try this. So here are a few pointers.

First thing to remember is, many women experience heightened sexual desire at this time.  That alone can make this an experience well worth trying! Men who enjoy period sex usually say it’s because their partners are uninhibited and hot while it’s happening. Maybe it’s some primal, hormonal thing, who knows? The important thing is, you want take advantage of the timing for osome mind-blowing sex.

Cleanliness will be the main issue for most people, so make sure you have a towel or other item available in case of any staining on your bedclothes. If there is any blood spotting, washing in cold water will take care of it. You may also want to consider changing the sheets beforehand if you have your new Egyptian cotton designer sheets on your bed.