Sex is wonderful.  Sex is amazing.  When two people can connect in such a magical way, there is nothing superior to the closeness we enjoy.  We need it.  We love it.  We crave it.  But sometimes, we would like it to stop.


It happens to the best of us.  We have too much on our mind.  We are exhausted, not feeling well, or are just not “into” it this time.  We try to be a good sport, but we would prefer that it all just be over with this time.  So what’s next?

We truly do not want to hurt anyone’s feelings.  As much as we might like to, we realize that irreparable damage could incur if we were to shout, “Alright, that’s enough, get off me!”  So we find a way to help them to…..’finish’.

 

There are only so many ‘ooh-ah’ sounds we can utter at different volumes and cadences.  Occasionally, it is compulsory that we state those magical ‘catch phrases’ that drive our men to the point of no return.  Hence, the “Words that Wrap it up!”

Let’s start with the obvious like, “I just want to feel your hot cum all over my body” (that one usually does it), or “I want to feel your big, hard cock throbbing inside of me” (SPLAT!).  We can’t use those too often however, because as mentioned earlier, they may become obvious or familiar.

Compliments are usually quite affective:

“Oh my God, you are so hot!”

“I love watching your body when you are on top of me!”

“I love it when you get sooo hard!”

“I love watching your amazing cock go in and out of me!”

“I can’t believe how good this feels!”

Sometimes it will take a few of these phrases to close the deal, coupled with some ‘inner squeezes’ or delicate ‘reach around’ to the under-carriage.  When you know your man, you know how to position your body in just the right way to drive him mad.  Some of us need only to grab our ankles and pull them way back behind the head, while others may need to flip themselves over and assume the ‘cat in heat’ position.  Whatever works!

Words to avoid:

“Did we pay the gas bill?”

“When is your mother coming over for dinner?”

“Ouch, that hurts?”

“Are you almost finished?”

“Are you still hard?”

True, these words will stop things dead in there tracks, but what if we want to tap back into it later.  It is much less beneficial to extinguish the flame than to let it burn itself to completion.  Yes, it is favorable to end on a positive note.  When in doubt, one can always get down and dirty:

“Fuck me harder”

“Cum baby cum”

Or toss a handful of swears in there:  “oh shit, ya”

I have noticed a lot of this ritual in porn films.

Advising upon the exact placement of the product or load seems also to be helpful in speeding things right along.  Instruct them to cum all over your:

  • ass
  • breasts
  • vagina
  • face
  • mouth
  • inside the mouth
  • deep in the throat

Though the dialogue we choose is tremendously important, the tone and inflection that we use can make a world of difference.  Obviously shouting from the rooftops is demonstrative of the level of excitement you're experiencing.  The shout alone may be enough to spiral your partner into climax.

Low tones can be useful as well.  Get right in his ear and huskily verbalize your sexy phrase.  Try using a demanding voice “I want you to cum right now”, especially if you tend not to do this often.  A soft whisper of a suggestion “I want to watch you blow your load” expressed as a hot secret between the two of you could send him into frenzy.

Finally eye contact and facial expressions can complete your point (pardon the hideous pun).  With a soft (or hard) expression on your face, look directly and deeply into his eyes for a sizzling grand finale.  This reveals confidence, closeness, and intensity.

I must confess that I had come up with the idea for this article after practicing this theory on my husband.  He would absolutely die if he had any idea that I had done this on purpose.  I giggled a bit over the matter with one of my girlfriends, and discovered that she too has been guilty of this crime.  Are you? Write us, we want to hear your ideas, words and tricks.  It would be a real hoot to share thoughts and stories!


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