Eroscopes

Venus, born of the sea, stepped out of the foam and cast her eyes about the land. Older than time itself, Venus rules birth, life, death, time, fate, and love. Since Roman times, Venus has represented sex in all of its mystery and fascination.

Astrology is the art of understanding, and when it comes to relationship issues, Venus plays an important part, but many other factors are involved. The ancient mystery of love keeps us in thrall. Without love, we are nothing.

Exploring love, karma, sex, and relationship with astrology can reveal much about two people and how they interact in a relationship. Using astrology wisely, an astrologer can point out the strengths and weaknesses of a relationship, and give helpful advice on what areas to work on to achieve the connection desired. "Are we compatible?" is a very common and important question, and shows how much we do need love in our lives.

	Aries Mar. 21 - Apr. 19 January is a month to focus on your career and how others view you professionally as well as personally. You may lack the self-confidence to really present your ideas in a calm and socially acceptable manner, however, so pay close attention to how you are affecting others with any impatience or outbursts. Your attitude and outlook can make or break any situation you find yourself in now…if you pass the challenges the Universe presents you with early in the month, you will find yourself well-sought after once the 18th of the month. You may feel quite impotent when it comes to your sexual relationships, even if you aren’t experiencing actual physical problems…in the face of a lover’s needs (and possibly sexual demands or complaints), you just don’t know how to respond. It is like you’ve been switched off inside and can’t see a way to turn things around. You may not want to ‘waste time’ on foreplay or trying to stimulate a lover, but this would be a bad move on your part. Even if you aren’t feeling very sexy you should make an effort to connect with your partner. Share what you are feeling inside or what you are dealing with professionally if this is what is creating the erotic problem. If you ignore the issue it will rise up in a nasty way late in the month. It could get ugly after the 25th if you are neglecting your lover. Best Sex Dates for January: 27, 30 Best Sex Mates for January: Leo, Aquarius Romantic Interludes: 13 Karmic Complications: 7, 8, 31 Tarot card to focus on: Justice

	Taurus Apr. 20 - May 20 You may find yourself longing for far shores or lofty heights for much of January…you want (need) to take a journey now, be it in your mind or through actual foreign travel. If you work in an international setting or deal with people from foreign cultures, you will find that it is necessary to do an enormous amount of background research to feel confident enough in your new ideas to share them…or you may need to adjust or change an old perspective related to higher education or spiritual matters. What it all comes down to is a need to feel satisfied, as if you are on the right track and not just blowing hot air. Unfortunately you will need to be a bit more patient if others simply aren’t clicking with you this month. Relationships with family members and those you work could be particularly draining or frustrating. This isn’t likely to be a very erotic month if you are stuck and can’t travel…but if you can take a trip overseas or to a foreign land prior to the 18th, you will be pleasantly stimulated and maybe even surprised…your libido will shoot through the roof, which will certainly get the locals attention. Your body language will exude eroticism in the right setting. It would be easy to meet someone exotic and new if you truly want to. If you are single, it is time to check out various international dating sites and spend time getting to know a few select men or women, no matter the distance between you. Best Sex Dates for January: 4, 5, 11, 13, 15 Best Sex Mates for January: Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn Romantic Interludes: 11, 13, 15 Karmic Complications: 7, 8, 25, 27, 29, 30 Tarot card to focus on: The Fool

	Gemini May 21 - June 21 Power struggles may dominate the landscape in January, especially if you feel you aren’t being given the recognition or acceptance you desire or feel you deserve. You may come across as overwhelming and powerful to some and inconsistent and undependable to others. Try to find a balance and focus on getting your two sides to function more smoothly so you can attract the help and wealth you need now. Love may seem more a burden than a blessing if you are unable to let go of the difficult emotions you are harboring, some of which are resonating from your past relationships. If you find yourself caught up in a fearful or bitter place it is a clear sign that you need to relax and let go. The more you try to present a calm face when you are torn up inside, the less others - especially potential lovers - will trust you. It is a good time to seek advice or counseling from those you trust. Chances are you will come to the conclusion that you are the one restricting your own love life as you come to realize that your need to dominate and be ‘right’ is exactly what is pushing love - and healthy, connected sex - away. If you are spending too much time in the bathroom with your toys or hand you may want to come out once in a while and give love and attention to others…you will be surprised at how well others respond erotically to you when you are smiling and sharing of your own inner being freely. It may not be an especially kinky month, but wow, you sure could use both meat and potatoes right about now… Best Sex Dates for January: 4, 5, 11, 15, 21, 22, 24 Best Sex Mates for January: Leo, Libra, Aquarius Romantic Interludes: 4, 5 Karmic Complications: 7, 8, 15, 30, 31 Tarot card to focus on: The Hanged Man

	Cancer June 22 - July 22 Life may seem to be a never-ending pile of worry in January. You are dealing with several situations at home and within your most important partnerships throughout the month and you may find yourself struggling to find direction. Your sense of self-worth may be under fire as you can’t seem to get a grip on all that is going on. The danger with low self-esteem and a feeling of being vulnerable is that you may turn to addictive behavior in order to find some relief. This could be anything from overeating to drinking to engaging in risky sexual practices. If you are in the process of a separation or divorce or are otherwise heart-hurt, you may seek erotic attention without discrimination - a sure-fire way to wind up in deeper waters than you can navigate emotionally or mentally. It is too easy to deceive or manipulate you now, so be on guard and don’t rush to hook up with anyone you meet online or don’t know well. Although you will feel better after you achieve an orgasm or two, it may well be temporary and won’t be worth the suffering later on. Stick to those you are already intimate with, be it a current partner or a lover from the past you know how to deal with. Be sure he or she knows what the terms of mating are before you engage…and be sure you know what they are too! Sex within a happy and committed partnership will be phenomenal, especially if you explore those ‘banned’ zones on the 13th. Best Sex Dates for December: 11, 13, 15, 21, 22, 24, 27, 30 Best Sex Mates for December: Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces Romantic Interludes: 11 Karmic Complications: 15, 31 Tarot card to focus on: Judgment

	Leo July 23 - Aug. 22 It may become quite clear to you in January that you must make changes in your daily life or your health or energy levels will continue to suffer. Those things you’ve been putting off may need to be taken care of now, be it a check up or a change in your diet or relationship. Your body will tell you what you need to know if only you’d listen to it. You may find that your duties or responsibilities in your profession are also shifting, for better or for worse. If you aren’t happy where you are, it is up to you to do something about it. Making excuses is always easier than taking action and some of you may not be in a place to actually move forward just yet, but after the 15th you will need to begin to make serious plans and clarify your intentions. Sexually you may be attracted to - and hurt by - erratic or emotionally unfaithful partners who continue to give you the run around…you deserve far, far better than this! Refuse to accept the bad behavior or poor treatment of others and you will feel stronger and more yourself. Other more potent and loving partners will sit up and take notice if you build up your inner confidence and take better care of your health (both mental and physical). Sex is always there for the taking for you but you want more than a quick roll now…you want to connect on a deep emotional level so allow your body’s needs to integrate with your deeper soul needs. Having it just to have it cheapens the experience and may affect your self-esteem negatively. Best Sex Dates for January: 13, 27, 29, 30 Best Sex Mates for January: Gemini, Leo, Libra, Sagittarius, Aquarius Romantic Interludes: 30 Karmic Complications: 7, 8, 25, 27, 29, 30 Tarot card to focus on: Temperance

	Virgo Aug. 23 - Sept. 22 As the new year opens, love and sex is your primary focus and you do not want one without the other. Love without sex won’t meet your fierce erotic needs and sex without love will leave you feeling like a worn out whore. No, you need both in the right dose and at the right time and lucky you, January is the right time. Many of you will find this month to be very passionate and heated. This may have you thinking a bit too much about the past or going over things in your mind that still need resolution within a partnership or love relationship, so when you are with your lover strive to shove any fears and external noise aside so your body can take you both where you want to go - and beyond! It can…the Virgo body is a very wanton organism that can reach deep down into the most physical and earthy sexual pleasure possible if you allow it to, and most important of all, it can take your lover along with it. This may be a time of great upheaval in your perspective of how partnerships should be…if you can toss that word (should) right out the window you will enjoy the sexual sparks this month that much more. Best Sex Dates for January: 4, 5, 11, 13, 15 Best Sex Mates for January: Taurus, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces Romantic Interludes: 4, 5, 11, 13, 15 Karmic Complications: 7, 8, 25, 27, 29, 30 Tarot card to focus on: Wheel of Fortune

	Libra Sept. 23 - Oct. 23 It’s almost as if you can smell change in the air and it is making you feel restless and unsettled. You know something is shifting beneath the surface but may not know what it is, especially concerning your home-life, physical property, and your family unit. You’d like to have all the answers, options, and possibilities laid out at your fingertips so you can attempt to sort through it all logically…unfortunately that isn’t how it works. This month may wind up being a test of faith - possibly a test of fate - for many of you as you are asked to let go of your logical thought patterns (just a little) and develop more trust in the Cosmos and direction your life is heading. Everything happens for a reason in it’s own perfect timing…knowing this on a mental level is different than feeling it right down within your very bones and this is exactly what the Universe is asking of you. To feel. To use your intuition. To trust. Your sexual partner(s) will battle for your attention later in the month, but you may feel too torn about everything else that is happening to give him or her the attention they desire. Don’t allow your worries to prevent you from getting closer and more intimate with a lover as this can be an excellent time to move toward a more settled commitment. Your lover can become your greatest support system if you allow him or her to. What are you afraid of? Ask yourself this question as many times as necessary. Eventually the answer will appear, perhaps in a surprising way… Best Sex Dates for January: 21, 22, 24, 27, 29, 30 Best Sex Mates for January: Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, Aquarius Romantic Interludes: 27, 29, 30 Karmic Complications: 4, 5, 11, 15, 31 Tarot card to focus on: Nine of Cups

	Scorpio Oct. 24 - Nov. 21 You’ll be on the go for much of January as you attempt to stay on top of your responsibilities while also indulging your own need to communicate, meet new people, and learn. You may also feel somewhat confused about a situation in your home or within your family and keeping super busy may be a way to avoid thinking about it too much. However the energy manifests for you personally, it is safe to say that your perspective on life - including family and love relationships - is in a state of fluctuation, which may leave you feeling flustered or powerless. No matter how much you try to control your life you may have to accept that there are things beyond your personal power. This is a time to work on your communication and self-expression skills. Dimming or hiding your voice will not help you move forward, although a period of reflection before presenting your ideas may be called for. You want to make a good impression, especially professionally, and this is even more pertinent if family situations have recently interfered with your ability to do your best job. You’ll feel luckier in love around midmonth and you may find that you need to expand your vision of love and how it plays out in your life. No matter how much you deny needing anyone, deep down inside you desire a true Soul commitment. A relationship where you can look into one another’s eyes while you make love, your Souls touching as your bodies meet. You may meet someone new around the 13th that you won’t want to let out of your sight. If you are already taken, this is the time to rekindle intense passion within a current love relationship. Best Sex Dates for January: 4, 11, 13, 15, 22, 27, 29 Best Sex Mates for January: Taurus, Cancer, Leo, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, Pisces Romantic Interludes: 13 Karmic Complications: 7, 8, 25, 27, 29, 30 Tarot card to focus on: The Chariot

	Sagittarius Nov. 22 - Dec. 21 You may be withdrawn in reflection in early January as you could feel that you are unable to truly express yourself and be heard. As you replay past scenarios in your mind and work through lingering difficulties in your life, you may begin to realize what role you played in creating the situation(s) in the first place. Although it isn’t wise to try to return to that distant place, it would be beneficial to work on healing your own being and improving how you view others in your world - past and present. While you work through the internal dramas, your external home life may appear to be in a state of change or disorder (or both). It is important to work on your self-esteem and not do too much retail therapy. Stay out of the shops as you are likely to run into ‘deals’ that are really rip-offs, especially as you’ll lose the receipts before you ever make it back to return the goods. If you are feeling distant in a sexual relationship it may signify that it is time to make some changes…if the partnership is generally good, then do what you can to spice it up instead of moping or complaining. If your relationship is one in which you are living separate lives, you may want to ask yourself what exactly it is you want from love and your lover. Are you giving of yourself emotionally and sexually or are you expecting your partner to pick up the slack and do all the maintenance work? You may need to have an important talk between the 22nd and 30th. Best Sex Dates for January: 27, 29, 30 Best Sex Mates for January: Aries, Leo, Libra, Aquarius Romantic Interludes: 27, 29 Karmic Complications: 13, 30 Tarot card to focus on: Five of Wands

	Capricorn Dec. 22 - Jan. 19 The spotlight is on you as the new year opens…others may seek you out for advice or money, maybe both. It may seem as if you just can’t get away from those looking for help. If you are in a healthy financial position you should consider giving a bit more to others in need. It’s a wonderful month to clear out some lingering karmic debt surrounding finances and giving to others. Being a miser will only draw miserly circumstances. January is a great time for love and commitment. If you are in a relationship that is serious and heading toward a marriage or live-in type situation, don’t be surprised if things really start to take off later in the month. Those already happily committed will find that this will be month when you figure out where you want to go next in your sexual relationship…and sex will be a top priority for the sea goat in January. You want your needs met and could be a little too self-focused for your lover. If you want to dominate and take charge it may be best to ask your lover if he or she is interested in becoming your sex slave this month; otherwise, you may meet with resistance right when you really need to find release. Try to give a little more to your partner and you will certainly get a whole lot more in return. Each suck, lick, and orgasm will be returned to you threefold…you just have to give first in order to reap the bountiful benefits... Best Sex Dates for January: 7, 8, 11, 13, 15, 21, 22, 24, 27, 29, 30 Best Sex Mates for January: Taurus, Leo, Virgo, Scorpio, Pisces Romantic Interludes: 11, 21, 22 Karmic Complications: 7, 8, 15, 25, 27, 29, 30, 31 Tarot card to focus on: The Sun

	Aquarius Jan. 20 - Feb. 18 If you are feeling bossy or aggressive in a love relationship you may want to ask yourself why you are feeling so insecure. Is it truly something your partner is (or isn’t) doing or are there fears arising within your own being? It is perfectly natural to fear the unknown or to feel emotionally vulnerable when you love someone and the relationship isn’t as solid as you would desire; however, trouble will arise if you are unable to voice your concerns in a calm manner. Fighting off your own feelings or repressing them only creates problems as they do not actually go away but rather spin and spin inside of you until they burst out uncontrollably. As you can imagine - or already know from past experience - these outbursts are very destructive to your relationships. You may have a lot of thinking to do about your past relationship behavior and some of you may want to try again with someone from your past. Be sure you are approaching an old lover with your eyes open as you may not be seeing anything clearly in January. Sexually you may feel as if you are settling for less than you want (which translates to zero amount of sexual activity for some of you) or perhaps you just can’t open enough to connect emotionally with another. If you are able to separate love and sex, you may enjoy a quick, even anonymous hook-up. The shadier your behavior and the situation, the more excited you may be. Anything taboo could be stimulating now but you may want to consider what you will think of yourself after the party is over. Best Sex Dates for January: 7, 8, 15, 27, 29, 30 Best Sex Mates for January: Aries, Gemini, Leo Romantic Interludes: 15 Karmic Complications: 4, 5, 7, 8, 11, 15, 27, 39, 30, 31 Tarot card to focus on: The Devil

	Pisces Feb. 19 - Mar. 20 You want to feel free as the New Year opens…you want to be who you truly are inside and to express yourself freely, knowing that those you are spending time with support your personal goals and understand you on a very deep level. If you have felt trapped in the past January may mark a turning point in your perspective…you now realize that you have shackled yourself to outmoded beliefs and the wants, needs, and desires of others at the expense of your own happiness. It may be, for some of you, literally a time when you break all the rules and enjoy yourself immensely while doing so. An erotic and very intense - possibly forbidden - relationship may be the trigger that helps you overcome frustrations you’ve created for yourself, releasing your inner being and allowing you to shine and connect in a whole new way to another person as well as to yourself and, by extension, the greater world. Your sexual interests and needs will tend toward the unusual and may include elements of domination and submission along with a desire to explore your lover’s body with electric gadgets to see his or her varying response to your attentions. Although most of you will enjoy a very stimulating and releasing month, some of you may become a little too focused - to the point of obsession - on the object of your desire by the end of the month. Try to relax and allow yourself (and your lover) the space to enjoy one another freely. Best Sex Dates for January: 4, 5, 11, 13, 15, 21, 22, 24, 31 Best Sex Mates for January: Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Capricorn Romantic Interludes: 11, 13, 15 Karmic Complications: 27, 29, 30, 31 Tarot card to focus on: Three of Wands

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