A guy’s body is a walking erogenous zone. And after we talked to a “few good men”, who were willing to share some of the more intimate details of their sex life with us, we have discovered that men have quite a few trigger spots, or should we call them “hot spots”. The one thing these "Hot Spots" have in common, is that they are all loaded with nerve endings. When stimulated, you’ll have a roaring tiger on your hands, or at least one that is purring pretty loudly.
His Neck
Women usually pay attention to only the sides of the neck. Don't forget the front, just below his Adam’s apple. Kissing this area softly, or using your tongue in a circular motion, is sure to pleasantly surprise him.
His Nipples
I’m sure this one isn’t a big surprise to most of us. Men’s nipple’s can be even more sensitive then ours. If you didn’t know about this great hot spot, give this a try;
Start by teasing him. Lick around the outside of his areola, working your way towards his nipples. Move slowly and in a circular motion, you want to tease him for as long as possible. If you really want to increase the intensity, stop, just before you reach his nipple, and kiss him tenderly on his lips, then move back to playing with his nipples. When you finally reach your destination, flick it with your tongue, and then bite them gently. Generally speaking, women like nipple and breast play to be gentle, that’s not always the case with men. Some men can handle a nip or two in that area, find out first and then have a feast!

A great twist to the technique above, is to suck on an ice cube first. It will send shivers up his spine!
His Perineum
The Perineum is the area between the anus and the scrotum. This area contains a lot of nerve endings, which makes it very sensitive and responsive to fondling. If you are wondering why this little area is such a hot spot of sensuality, it's because the prostate gland is located directly above it. The perfect way to work this spot is to start out gently massaging the Perineum in light circular motion. Continue doing this until just before his orgasm, and then add a bit more pressure, almost kneading the area. Not only with this prolong his orgasm, it will send him straight to heaven.
His Anus
Moving right along, your man’s next hot spot is his anus. Not only is it a hot bed of nerve endings, but because of the traditional taboo factor associated with it, it can be very erotic.
Men either love it or hate it, so make sure you get the go ahead from your man before attempting these techniques.

Always use a lot of lubrication when playing around in this area, as the tissue is not only sensitive, but also very delicate. Moving slowly, insert one or two fingers and begin massaging the walls in a circular motion. The most effective use of anal play, is to stimulate the prostate. The prostate gland in located about one or two inches inside the rectum. Your fingers must be pointed towards his stomach. Feel around and look for something about the size of a walnut. We're pretty sure your man will let you know when you find it.
His Shaft
Men love to have their penis worshiped. They want it played with, licked, fondled, massaged, and even scratched. This area begs for all that and more. Because there is a wide variety of things you can do with a man’s shaft, we are going to give you just a few ideas here. The techniques involving your hands work best if you use some lubricant. Here are a couple of our favorites:

Spot Pinch
Ask him to tell you where the most sensitive spot on his shaft is, then lightly and slowly run your fingers around and on that spot. Pinch, squeeze, nibble and tease, as much as you want.

The Ring
Make a ring with your thumb and forefinger and pump up and down with it. When you get to the top close the ring. Then make him squeeze his way in as you slide back down to the bottom. For a really hot variation on this technique make 2 tight rings, and place around his penis. Place one ring on top of the other, on the middle of his shaft. Tighten the pressure then slide the rings in opposite directions stopping at the base and head, then meeting again in the middle.

The Head of his Penis
This is it ladies, mission control. The hub of hot spot central. There are more nerve endings in this area then in any other place on the whole male body. The trick is pressure. You must apply just the right amount of pressure, or you’ll send your man into sensory overload.

Pretend you are applying lipstick, but use the head of his penis as the applicator. Remember to keep your lips lose. For a variation you can even pop his entire head into your mouth and then bring it back out. Make sure your lips are good and wet! Or how about this, hold his penis firmly by the shaft, and while licking the head, pretend it’s your favorite flavor of ice-cream.
His Testicles
Here’s another hot spot, but it’s not just his testicles, we’re talking about. How about giving the seam on his scrotum, some undivided attention. While fondling the “boys” with one hand, trace the line of the seam with the fingertips from your free hand. For a bit of variety, use your tongue. Just be careful, this area is very sensitive to pressure, a little goes a long way.

His Frenulum
The Frenulum is the strip of flesh on the underside of the penis that connects the shaft to the head. Because it’s located on the underside, most of time it goes unnoticed. Here are a couple of eye opening moves for you to try. While holding the penis, circle your tongue around the head and crown. Each time you reach the frenulum, give it a few extra licks. You can even rub it gently up and down on your tongue. Do this a few times, and there will be no turning back. Another technique is to put some lubricant on your fingers and massage the frenulum, in small, gentle circular motions, or straight up and down.


So there you have it. A few Sssh tips on some great hot spots. Use them well, and let us know how your man reacts to them.


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