Dear Sssh,

I was glad to find out that it was normal for women to fantasize about having sex with other women during masturbation. When I masturbate, my 2 biggest fantasizes are making love to another women or 2 men. I learnt to masturbate from a friend when I was about 8 years old. She put a pillow on the ground, then lay on top of it on her stomach and humped it. Now 30 years later, this is still the only way I can have an orgasm. For variation, I sometimes put a vibrator inside of me, but the technique is always the same. I would love to be able to reach a climax lying on my back and using my fingers. My husband loves to watch me as I tease myself and bring myself just to the brink of cumming. He then stops me and joins in. I usually masturbate daily, sometimes I even do it when my husband in sleeping. ~ Karen from TX, USA

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