Dear Sssh,
My favorite toy is my dildo. If I'm not
wet enough to lubricate it myself, I will use Astroglide or KY Jelly.
I rub it all over my dildo, letting the warmth of my hands make it hot
and wet, so it feels like the real thing. I start out by lying on my
back and fantasizing about whatever comes to mind (sometimes it's even
other women). I caress and play with my breasts and nipples until I
feel "ready" and then I'll remove my panties and start teasing
my clit with my fingers. By this time I am fully aroused. I then sit
up and straddle 2 or 3 stacked pillows, hugging the pillows between
my thighs. I spread my labia apart and wedge the dildo lengthwise between
them, like placing a hotdog in a bun. I then start my ride. I rock back
and forth and side to side. Whatever feels best on my clit. The pressure
and friction from the pillows and dildo are wonderful. Euphoric almost.
My hands are free to explore and tease the rest of my body. I can achieve
multiple orgasms this way very easily. I have also used this technique
with my husband. I lay on my back and he places his penis between my
lips and I just rub away! ~ Peggy, UK