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| The Question; Does Size Matter? |
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how can it not? I truly believe that regardless of the love and adoration
you may feel for a man, when you begin your sexual relationship, if the
size is not right it will effect the entire relationship. You can't possibly
pretend it doesn't matter because eventually it will. If you are not sexually
satisfied, your relationship will be missing something very important and
wonderful. I think both women and men need to find the perfect fit of their
partner. Victoria Bryant |
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size matter? Hell YES! Size is important, but like anything else in life you have to know what to do with it if you've got it. If you have no idea what your doing you might as well keep it in your pants. You could hurt someone with it. I've had a varying range of sizes from average to very large and I have to say that knowing what to do and a sense of rhythm and patience is the most important thing. So even though I say size matters you still need to have a clue. Raya Parker |
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"Does size matter" is a subject almost every woman talks to her friends about at some point in her life. In my opinion, size definitely matters. To illustrate my point, let me tell you about my nephew. When "Charlie" (as I'll call him to protect his identity) was ten years old he had a huge crush on Baby Spice (from the Spice Girls group). He thought that if he could meet her she would fall madly in love with him and they would live happily ever after; however, a 10-year-old boy's penis would definitely be too small to satisfy the sexual desires of a grown woman. On the other hand, if a John Holmes-like man (i.e., a man with a twelve inch penis) came near me I'd run as fast as I could from the room. While the vaginal tissues themselves have little feeling (other than pressure), the cervix can and does feel pain. If a man's penis is too big, during sex it will pound against the cervix and can cause extreme pain for a woman. The last thing I want during sex is pain! Using the above-mentioned examples of size,
I would have to say that SIZE DOES MATTER - ABSOLUTELY! |
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might be putting myself in the fire here, but yes, I think size does matter.
Shape too. I'm not saying that all men should be hung like Kentucky Derby
winners, far from it! Women would have to come equipped with a built in
Holland Tunnel to accommodate those equine phalluses, and we all know that's
just not how things are. (Rumors about Catherine the Great not withstanding.)
You have to find the perfect fit! Whether you love the full to bursting
feeling or having space to squeeze those muscles down and grab him, it's
all got to fit together and work for everyone's pleasure. A curve can be
a fantastic tickler, and ridges too. If size (and shape) didn't matter,
would there be hundreds of variations on toys? Nature supplied us all with
individual personalities, right down to the last juicy little part. Vive
la variety! Carolina Fox |
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| Ok,
the question is: "Does size matter?". Well in my opinion, and
this is from my experience only, the only time that size does matter is
if you have a lover that is lacking in many or all other aspects of lovemaking.
Sometimes your looking for a quicky and that's alright. But when you want
a long, intense night of physical attention, and your man is intent on finishing
as fast as he can so he can catch Sportscenter on ESPN, then he better be
hung like a horse or he will be the next bottle of glue. As far as I am
concerned penis size is directly proportional to the amount of effort put
in to the love making. i.e.: if a man puts little or no effort into the
lovemakin', he better be hung like horse. On the other hand if he is attentative
to your needs and makes sure that you are feeling just as good as him, then
the size thing can be overlooked. That's just how I feel :) Amy Case |
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I will be honest YES! But it goes both ways and in the middle is just knowing
what to do. I have been with to big (way to big) and if they know what their
doing it's wonderful if not it's terrible. I've never been with to small
and I've been lucky to be with some wonderful lovers who were creative and
experimental they taught me that if you know what your doing you can work
with everything. For me it's all about passion, stimulation and creativity. A good lover listens when you tell them what you like they care about your comfort and passion and then it's all wonderful. Monique Cousineau |
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"Does size matter". I think size matters to both sexes. Because sex is such an important part of a relationship, when one of those parts isn't working then the whole thing will eventually fail. It's like this, you can't put a square block into a round hole and expect the thing to fit. I'm tired of all the men that complain that women are fixated on the size of our penis. We are just as guilty of being fixated on the size of a womans breasts. So until both sexes can come to terms with this "size" thing, I think it will definitely remain an issue. Craig |
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Does size matter? You bet it does, but for more subtle reasons than meets the eye. For men, with regards to their own "penile self image", there is a strong social message that it is the main thing! Just as women are barraged with continuous media role models of what their boobs, butts and waistlines "should" look like, men are also given the strong message from a lifetime of looking at porn and comparing notes with other men that the bigger the dick, the better you are in on women's lover criteria scale. For women, it can be even more confusing. Sure, a pencil eraser is just not going to do the trick, but a John Holmes tool is going hurt to the point of making the entire experience as fun as a cervical exam. But, knowing that men are a little sensitive on this issue, most women do the "right thing" and assure their partner with statements like "OOO! It's so BIG baby!", even if it is just a nice, average size. And so it goes, around and around between so many couples in an effort for the man to be made to feel viral and potent. But let's face it guys, this entire topic is the male equivalent to women wondering of their butts are too big or their boobs are too small. You play the hand you are dealt and ultimately must accept your individual toolkit and learn how to use it optimally. Too small? The tongue and fingers are nice helpers. Too big? Take it easy on her! The goal is not to punish, but to please! In that nice, "normal" 5 to 6 inch range? Enjoy! It's a non-issue! Jack
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