An Encyclopedia of the usual and not so unusual, in no typical order.


Booty Call
There are friends, boyfriends, and fuck friends. And when you are looking for some loving you might need to make a call to one of these friends to set up an appointment for some instant "loving". This call is the booty call and can be made by any sex, but it is reserved for a couple whose agreement is just to have sex and nothing else.

As long as everyone knows and agrees to the terms of the call and doesn't expect anything else from each other, this relationship can work. But for those who want more out of the system, the booty call can destroy a perfectly good friendship.

One thing is for certain: Don't make the booty call at 3:00 in the morning, because there is a high likelihood that you will be rejected!

Dry Humping
If there was one thing that every couple did when they were younger, it was dry humping. The term is defined as simulating sex while you are still wearing your clothes. This is also a type of foreplay that can lead to sex, but does not necessarily always move in that direction.

There are many activities in the real world that are forms of dry humping. These include bumping and grinding on the dance floor as well as the famous lap dance at the burlesque palace.

Since clothes are involved, dry humping can be considered a safe sex alternative, though you should always have a condom ready because once one piece of clothing comes off you never know what is going to happen.


KY Jelly

Is the most trusted name personal lubricants, K-Y has been around for years. Women find lubrication such as K-Y useful since drying can occur during condom use. Men find it useful for easy insertion during sex as well as providing smooth stroking when it comes time for a handjob. Don't be fooled though, because K-Y Jelly can be used for more than personal lubrication. It can also be used in activities that require insertion of objects, BDSM play, and anal sex.

Over the years, many people have switched and are using K-Y products for sexual intercourse. These lubricates enhance sexual activity and promote intimacy. The best thing about K-Y Jelly is that it is smooth, remains smooth much longer, and can be used with condoms since it is water based. Best of all it doesn't have a bad taste.

The K-Y Brand line of products includes K-Y Brand Liquid Personal Lubricant, K-Y Brand Jelly, K-Y Brand SILK-E‚ Vaginal Moisturizer and the new K-Y Brand UltraGel‚ Personal Lubricant.

Note that there are many various types of personal lubricants including Astroglide, Anal Lube, Eros, and Probe.


Leather
For some it's lace and for others it's satin, but black leather has many aficionados. Commonly seen in BDSM movies, black leather on a male or female portrays a domineering attitude while red leather on women makes them hot and sexy. None the less both colors promote sex.

Because of its association with BDSM, many people see wearing leather as taboo. Others who love leather get aroused by the way leather feels against their skin or even the sight of someone in leather.

And remember, leather is not restricted to only clothing.


Mutual Masturbation

You are probably accustomed to pleasuring yourself in the shower, before going to bed, or even while fantasizing about a lover, but have you ever stroked yourself in front of your partner or even with your partner?

Though some have masturbated together over the phone (phone sex), they have never done it together. It might feel awkward masturbating with your partner, but mutual masturbation can be very arousing. Some find that watching their partner touch themselves to be sexy, though it should be more that this. Watching your partner masturbate, or helping them masturbate, can show you / teach you what your partner likes and how they like to be touched. It is mutually beneficial to all.


Quickie

School, work, or children, have made quickies the norm for many couples. Even though both parties desire more, time constraints don't allow for leisurely sexual romps.

Quickies can take place anytime, anyplace, from the early morning or at night where there is more alone time, but there are many couples who have become innovative having quickies during lunch breaks, in public places and even the the car. The possibilities are endless!


Rimming
The act of rimming is also known as oral play of the anus. Though some people may find this sexual act disgusting, once they experience it, they absolutely love it. This is because the anus is the most neglected erogenous zone on both men and women. Just start with small steps, and many couples will learn to enjoy this gentle touch.

  • Step One - Rimming is Not Dirty
    The first thing you must get out of your mind is that the anus is dirty. It has been found that the bacteria found around the anus is not harmful and the area around the anus has been shown to contain less bacteria than the mouth. If this is still a problem for any party all you have to do just shower before anal play.
  • Second - The First Touch
    Once you have overcome the reluctance of anal play, you need to get used to being touch around this area. So grab your partner, some lube and start exploring. Have your lover run one finger between the cheeks of your buttocks. This may take some time and trust building. When both parties are comfortable with this motion, you can one step further and press the pad of a thumb against the anus.
  • Step 3 - Penetration
    By relaxing you can allow your partner to penetrate and insert a finger in the anus. Make sure you take it slow and use lots of lube. Try to enjoy the new sensations that anal penetration brings.
  • Step 4 - Rimming
    Finally you can take this one step further by allowing your partner to lick your sphincter. Bum lickies, as some may call it, is very easy to get used to once you have performed the previous steps. With men, you can also work on the other areas such as the perineum and testicles.


Role Playing
Role playing is when both partners take the personality of another person and act as if they were that person. This is a type of game that many couples use to fulfill their fantasies while others use it to add some spice to their sex life. Since many couples do not feel comfortable talking about their fantasies they use role playing as their method of communication.

Some types of role playing that can take place are:

- The doctor and the nurse
- The lonely house wife and the pool attendant
- The bad boss and the secretary
- The slave and the master
- The butler and the maid
- The model and the photographer
- The prostitute and the john
- The cop and the villain
- The lawyer and the client
- The king and the queen


Sex on the Road
Also known as highway sex, sex on the road can be FATAL if care and precaution is not taken. Sex on the road is very arousing and can be lots of fun. If your man is driving start by stroking his cock. From there you can move on to oral sex. You can also make a game from it. For instance, only perform oral sex at red light or on the highway, but always, always be careful. If you cannot control yourself, pull over to the side of the road and start the party right there. Remember safety is number 1 and you actions affect not only you but other drivers on the road.


Sex Toys for Men
Though many sex toys are depicted to be primarily for women, male toys do exist. These include cock rings, butt plugs, anal beads, love dolls, vaginas, and masturbators.

  • Cock Rings
    These are leather or rubber rings that fit over an erect penis. The main reason people purchase these items is the help the man keep his erection for longer. Many people swear by them though others feel that it doesn't keep them erect any longer. Two types of cock rings do exist: ones which are adjustable and ones which cannot be adjusted. If you are going to try one for the first time, go with one that can be adjusted for your penis.
  • Butt Plugs
    Designed for anal play, butt plugs are inserted into the anus for increase stimulation. These are used and enjoyed by both men and women. Butt plugs have many designs and are made with different types of materials and colors. Some even vibrate after inserted.
  • Anal Beads
    Anal beads are beads that are attached to a string and usually have a ring on the end where you can stick your finger through. Using lube, you insert each bead in one at a time and they are removed during sex play. You can take the anal beads out during two different times. Many pull each bead out slowly during orgasm while some people take each bead out during random sexual events such as during a rear entry (doggie style) position or during oral sex.
  • Love Dolls
    These plastic dolls are also known as inflatable dolls, blow up dolls, and sex dolls. There are many types of different dolls, different looks, different feels, and even different skin tones. Some have vibrators for extra enjoyment, while others can be filled with helium, water, or just plain air. Men who have these dolls enjoy them and have been known to dress them and put wigs on them. Some don't care and just take any hole that is available and enjoys the pleasure. Yes men love inflatable dolls and will spend anywhere from a hundred dollars to a few thousand on one. The best part of a love doll is that you will never get complaints from her. She will do any position that you want, and she never gets headaches.


Undressing
Men see clothing as a barrier that prevents them from having sex with their partner right then and there. But undressing can also be a part of foreplay that can be so intense it can drive him crazy. So whether you undress yourself or he undresses you, this can be an important and exciting part of foreplay, which should never be overlooked. We generally are pretty good at putting on a "show" for our men, so below is a technique that maybe you can pint o his pillow to undress you.

  • For the Guys
    Undressing her slowly while kissing and caressing her exposed skin, but don't stop there...
  • In order to make undressing more exciting you can do these simple techniques that will guarantee she will be putty in your hands:

    1. Touch her body through her clothing
    2. Undress her slowly and keep her panties on. While her panties are on, slide your finger across the waist band and the leg band to tease her. Now lick her vulva.
    3. Some music and a lap dance while seeing you undress can be entertaining
    4. Feel free to give your girl a lap dance. This also requires skill. Remember how a stripper dances when entertaining her crowd? I know you have all watched strippers before. Well try to mimic her.
    5. A blindfold while undressing her will increase her sense of touch will increase your chance of getting her to orgasm

Vaginas and Masturbators
Vaginas, also known as artificial vaginas, are items that are shaped like vaginas that are made to mimic the real thing. There are many types of vaginas in the market and may differ by material and shape. Some vaginas also come with a vibrating device that may masturbate you at the same time. There are different types of masturbators too. There are ones that simulate blow jobs, ones that provide anal stimulation, and others that just provide stimulation.

Water Sports
In a world full of different sexual activities, there exists a few out of the ordinary activities that some find very arousing. One of these activities is water sports. Water sports is a sexual activity that involves the use of urine while engaged in sexual activity. Though the norm will find this disgusting, people who are involved with this fetish enjoy liquid love. Not only do they love the urine all over their body, they also enjoy the odor and the taste. Imagine that.

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