· Do protect yourself and your partner by using a condom. Un-lubricated or flavored works best. Some say adding a little water base lubricate inside the condom to give the man more pleasure.

Don't allow yourself to feel pressured to perform oral sex. It is completely YOUR choice.

· Do be conscientious of personal hygiene. Cleanliness is most important and it's always helpful to comb the pubic hair to remove any loose hairs that may stray to you partners mouth.

· Don't swallow if YOU don't like to. Keep tissues or wipes handy to help with clean up after.

· Do swallow if YOU like to. No explanation necessary.

· Don't bite. Use caution when applying your teeth for a textured rub.


· Don't allow your partners hands on the back of you head if YOU are not comfortable with it. Most men simply do this for encouragement, not to be forceful.

· Do use your lips, tongue, and hand to drive him mad.

· Do respect your partner's likes and dislikes.

· Do what feels most pleasurable to you and your partner. Remember, he's going to love anyway your wet tongue and lips touch his hard rock shaft.

Helpful Hints

· Keep you hand wrapped around the base of the penis. This will help you control the length of the penis you insert into your mouth. Deep throat really is a myth; you'll find your own depth comfort zone

· Have your partner hold the base of the penis for you. This helps to free your hands to use elsewhere or get into a more comfortable position. Also who knows what the penis likes better than the man himself! Let him work it, watch and learn.

· Experiment with soft touches of the lips and long lingering licks with your tongue making him anticipate the rhythm you're going to set…fast or slow. Ask him what he likes and see if he can answer in the mist pleasure.

· Stroke the penis by hand in the same or opposite rhythm of your mouth's movements. Remember how much you like to be stroked and feel the strokes your giving him, set the pace.

· Fondle his genitals or simply hold them, not squeezing too hard…unless he asks you to of course. Rub his thighs with your fingertips. Men like to be touched as much as women do.

· Let the saliva from you mouth run down his shaft, this is no time to try to be neat. Most men like the wet moist feeling your generating. Think of your saliva as a lubricant and keep the juices flowing.

· While moving your mouth up and down, let your lips flow completely around the rim of the penis creating an in and out sensation. Along the rim of the penis head is a most sensitive area, which deserves special attention unto itself.

· Try flicking your hard pointed tongue quickly back and forth against the under carriage area at the head of the penis or try the bottom area of the shaft near the testicles.

· When your partner is moaning and bucking in pleasure and you're not yet ready for ejaculation, backing off allows him to peak not cum. Changing your rhythm bringing him down leaves him open for another peak later with your next set of moves. Trust your feeling here to know the right time to make the moves. While he enjoys the roller coaster ride you have him on, you'll feel like a powerful control goddess.

· When your partner is moaning and bucking in pleasure, if you want ejaculation at this time, try not to change your rhythm. Consistency helps to keep the excitement building. What you're doing is working well right now and you want to keep his concentration right where is, headed for oblivion.


· When your partner spews, don't stop licking and sucking immediately. Continue you magic as you feel his thrusting and pulsing. Follow him into the aftermath of pleasure for another moment or two while his orgasm lingers.

· Let your partner's juice flow over your tongue with your mouth open. Gracefully let the juices flow off your tongue, out of your mouth or swallow.

· Strong tasting cum may become milder in flavor by a simple change in diet, such as adding pineapple and other fruits to the menu.

· Place soft kisses on your partner's testicles. Pull the testicles slowly and gently into your mouth while he pumps his rock hard cock to fulfillment and release.

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