Role-playing anyone?  Explore yours and his fantasies with a sensual game of role-playing. Take the lead role.  Shut him into a dark room, tell him to take off his clothes and lay back.  Instruct him on every move he is to make with a strong but quiet voice.  On the other hand, you could get primal on him.  Scream for him and tell him what you want as the passion escalates.  Pick a role or a scenario and act it out accordingly.  Or, let him know you love him, you want him, and you desire him.

Have you ever thought about using another language?  While role-playing, why not take the role of a sexy foreign seductress?  Learn some key phrases in a different language, and utter only those words.  I would recommend sticking to some of the more romantic languages such as Spanish, French, or Italian, staying away from the guttural languages. 

Unless that is what gets his goat!  Perhaps you could begin with a sensuous meal that represents that particular culture, beginning the exotic fantasy with food.  Men love to eat and have sex.  Combine the best of both worlds to make his day.

It is a blasphemous myth that nice girls do not use naughty words! There is a time and a place for everything.  During heated passionate lovemaking is a great time to “talk dirty”, in order to further ignite the climbing intensity to a higher level.  Nothing fires a man up like hearing you say “fuck me now”, or “give it to me hard”, or “I want your big hard cock”.  Let go of your inhibitions and let those dirty little phrases flow.  Let’s face it; you are too old to be concerned with getting your mouth washed out with soap!

Not ready to get loud?  Start with some soft whispers.  Gently tell him what you would like.  Get close; brush his ears with your lips.  Let your words caress him.  Let him know how much you love him and how wonderful he feels.  He will respond amazingly!  Sex is about sharing and exploring.  Verbalizing increases the ability to both share and explore.  I personally believe that it is good to talk about sex inside and outside of the bedroom.  Discussing what turns each partner on casually over dinner or among drinks can lead to extraordinary lovemaking.  Express yourself!