Set things up just as you like them to be. What appeals to your erotic senses? Music, soft lighting, maybe a bath or satiny sheets on your bed. Maybe both. Put on something that makes you feel sexy, or wear nothing at all. This time is all about you, for you, by you. Masturbation in a setting like this is a personal celebration, a special treat akin to sneaking a hot fundge sundae but without the calories. Make it as special as you want it to be. Indulge yourself with all the touches you've wished for from lovers or fantasized about. Let your curiosity explore your erogenous zones. You might find more hot zones than you thought you had. Shut out any distractions and just get into yourself. As Frank N. Furter said, "Give yourself over to absolute pleasure". This all might sound like a real production, but remember that most women average 30 minutes to an hour in the bath. Timing is about the same for a woman getting ready for bed.

While a sensual setting can be great as a treat, don't forget about self pleasure at simpler times. Is there something that's always kinda stimulated you that you haven't explored in a sexual way? Maybe it's the water running over your skin in the shower or bath. Ever wonder if the washing machine's agitation could vibrate you if you sat on the machine while it was running? Personal playtime can be anywhere, anytime. Doesn't have to be elaborate. There are stories about people who masturbate when they were stuck in traffic, although that's probably a bit too distracting for safe driving and we certainly don't advocate it. Point is, there are plenty of times when you're on your own, taking care of some mundane chore when you could play a little - or a lot! Who said chores had to be drudgery or that there's no sexy play during the daytime? Take a little longer in the shower if you want. A little orgasm in the morning is a great way to start the day.