Which Goddess Style Are You? In and Out of the Closet

Even those of us who don't think we have a clothes fixation, usually give some thought to what we wear when we go out into the world. Let's face it, even the most naturally beautiful woman looks better when she radiates her own personal style from head to toe. Style is hard to define–some people equate it with the latest fashion trends, some think it is purely personal and individual. Of course, these days we often look to movie stars and other celebrities for fashion trends–so I have found it really interesting that many of them like to wear vintage or other one-of-a-kind items of clothing, pulling together unique looks. Think about it: it's safe to wear what you've seen on the mannequin at the store, but chances are good there's a hundred other women out there (or more!) Wearing the same thing. A little creativity goes along way–so does understanding what looks good on YOU. Your coloring, your shape, your lifestyle, even your mood at the moment--all these factors should inform your clothing choices.

This fun quiz may help you gain some understanding of your sense of style. It's another of our goddess quizzes. Hey, wait–didn't the goddesses all wear togas? Well, yes the Greek and Roman ones, maybe! But the appearance of a goddess is tied to her qualities and abilities, too. Her outward style reflects who she is and what she can do–maybe we should all take a hint from this. Take the quiz, tally up your answers and find out what style you are!

1. The color I like to wear more than any other is:
A. Black–slimming, goes with everything!
B. Red/pink--vibrant, attention-getting!
C. Green–soothing, flattering, unusual
D. Blue–serious or casual, easy to wear
E. All of them–depends on my mood

2. My favorite items of clothing I own are:
A. A classic cocktail dress; silk pajamas
B. A slinky, sexy dress; a sparkly top
C. A vintage kimono; a flowery skirt
D. A classic, well-made suit; my favorite jeans
E. I can't choose, I love them all

3. My attitude towards shoes could be best described this way:
A. They should be comfortable but sexy.
B. The higher the heel, the better!
C. I have a secret love of unusual shoes.
D. I tend to live in pumps and trainers.
E. I have too many, but never quite the right ones.

4. I dress for work __________:
A. Appropriately but fashionably.
B. Sneakily--There's definitely a lacy camisole under this blazer!
C. In colors and fabrics I find pleasing.
D. By mixing and matching with a few classic pieces..
E. With difficulty–why can't I just wear this plaid mini-skirt?

5. If I have a date after work, I might:
A. Bring some nice shoes and wear a sexy top under my suit.
B. Bring a whole different outfit so I can switch gears–plus perfume and make-up!
C. Braid my hair so I can brush it out later–and bring a striking item of clothing
D. Wear my best outfit and dress it up with accessories later.
E. Leave early so I can go home and change–or maybe go shopping right beforehand!

6. In my closet, I see lots of:
A. Neutral colors and flattering styles
B. Sexy evening wear and fashionable shoes.
C. Beautiful colors that make me feel good
D. Classic styles and well-made casual clothes
E. Clothes and shoes I haven't worn in years.

7. When I think of changing my clothing style dramatically, I feel:
A. Thoughtful–that might be a good idea.
B. Excited–this will be fun!
C. Curious–I like to be creative with my clothes.
D. Indifferent–I feel comfortable with how I dress.
E. Overwhelmed–I already feel like I switch styles frequently

	If you have mostly "A" answers: You are like ATHENA: Greek goddess of wisdom. You are confident in your look and select clothing to flatter your body that is suitable for your work and social life. You might consider being a bit more adventurous. Shop the sale racks to get an occasional fashionable piece, and experiment with new colors you don't usually wear that flatter your skin tone–hold it up to your face in the mirror to see if the color makes your skin and eyes and hair "pop"–try turquoise, rose, lavender, pale green, lemon yellow, peach, orange, electric blue–you never know what will look good! Change your hairstyle occasionally, and get a cut that allows you some versatility, like long layers or a blunt just-below-chin-length cut.

	If you have mostly "B" answers: You are like APHRODITE: Greek goddess of love, sex and beauty. You have fun with clothes and like to look sexy and alluring. You also follow fashion trends and consider yourself well-informed on fashion. But some people find a sexy look at the workplace off-putitng or confrontational.You might want to consider toning down your daytime look a bit. Make sure your makeup colors are not too dark or bright for day–the new look is paler lips, smoky eyes, not as much glitter or lip gloss! Next time you shop, try to find some classic pieces that make you look great–a well-cut jacket, some versatile medium-heeled black boots, an ivory satin blouse (which can look sexy and classy). Wear your hair up for a change. Save the sexpot looks for clubbing!

	If you have mostly "C" answers: You are like ARTEMIS: Greek goddess of nature, solitude and the moon. You have a well-developed sense of your own style and what looks good on you. You have some favorite colors that you tend to wear a lot of, and an appreciation for well-made vintage designs. You might consider a more formal look occasionally, like a tailored black cocktail dress for evening, or a well-fitting suit for day. You also tend to hold back from wearing anything too "racy" but if it looks good, wear it! Dressing somewhat against your established style is a great way to show people another side of your many-faceted personality. So go for that leather bustier!

	If you have mostly "D" answers: You are like DEMETER: Roman goddess of the earth and agriculture. You are fairly down to earth, and to you, clothes are not something to have fun with, but to wear according to the situation. Because of this attitude, you are usually very polished and well-dressed, but your casual fashion sense errs on the wide of caution, and, well, might be a bit dull. You might consider livening up your wardrobe a bit. No one is suggesting you suddenly start wearing stiletto heels and vinyl dresses, but a bit of effort can give you a softer, sexier look when it is called for. Start with color–if you're not sure which ones are flattering, take a friend shopping with you. Jeans are fine for a weekend date–but pair them with something sexy and striking: a silk tank top in a standout color, a vintage cashmere sweater, a sequined vest, a tuxedo shirt. Slowly adopt a signature piece or two and start wearing them to establish a sense of style: a leather jacket, a pair of red jeans, a colorful scarf. Let your polished sense of style stand out with a bit of flair!

	If you have mostly "E" answers: You are like the MUSES: Greek goddesses of creative inspiration. Your style is quirky and artistic and unique. You love clothes and shopping and putting new looks together. You might consider trying to develop a look that is really you, instead of trying so hard to look different from everyone else. Start by going through that overflowing closet of yours and getting rid of things you no longer wear. Give them to friends or a charity shop, so you know they'll have a good home. You'll probably find yourself hanging onto your best-loved vintage pieces and the items that are most flattering on you. Nothing wrong with wearing the same jacket almost for a week, or even a season! It will establish a strong sense of style, depending what you wear it with. Or maybe you want to create a set of looks focused on long skirts, boots and tailored tops. Perhaps you want to try a particular color palette for a while: earthy greens and browns, or cool blues and pinks and violets. Try for some consistency. You want people to recognize your style, but you have to give them something to remember–they can't do that if you are a chameleon who shifts colors every day.

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