Finding the Goddess in You

The first step in finding your inner "Goddess" is to define what the image of a goddess is to you. Is it Rachael Welch, Madonna, or June Cleaver? Is it your sister, neighbor or a smart coworker? Whatever it is you need to focus on the traits that is most appealing to you. Is it a great smile with bright lip stick, a sexy outfit, perfect hair, or is it just plain and simply the self confidence that a person projects?

Now picture yourself as the goddess you admire. Let go of any reservations you might have and imagine you are her. Ask yourself "what is this goddess doing that I can’t or won't do?" Let go of your inhibitions and have some fun. Change is happening everywhere around us, every day; why not embrace it?

Work the Attitude

It’s very easy to get caught up in the “perfect world” syndrome. Don’t fall for it! We are all sexy no matter what. So you think you're not the “perfect ten,” accept yourself for who you are! When you look and feel good about yourself, others around you will pick up on these positive vibes and admire the self confidence you project. Doesn’t your goddess always look sure of herself? Isn’t that one of the things you like most about her?

Feed the Ego

Have you stopped wearing brown, black and blue suits to the office every day? Did you highlight your hair, change the style? Whatever you do to be more of a goddess, people will begin to notice so learn to enjoy it. Allow yourself the pleasure of the compliments you receive and be proud of yourself. Wouldn’t your goddess be the first one to respond to a compliment with “Thank you darling?”

Be Gracefully Mysterious

The saying “A Lady never tells” is a lesson to be learned. Be honest but private about your life with people you haven't quite gotten to know yet. Being polite and calm instead of loud and crude can only make spending time with you more pleasant. You can still have fun, just behave as you know your goddess would. Do you see her complaining about her day then wondering why that nice guy who has just endured listening to her tirade for the last hour didn’t ask for her number?

Alluringly Feminine

Try wearing thongs and lingerie in both silk and lace. These sexy items not only feel good against your skin, but are also stimulatingly exciting to wear. You’re the only one that knows what’s underneath your clothes and who knows you could even go commando! Be flirtatious and show a little skin all the while leaving a lot to the imagination. Doesn’t your goddess walk slowly or sit charmingly as the slit of her skirt shows just enough leg to keep the attention on her?

All of the above are steps to increase your sex appeal. As you become more comfortable asserting yourself, you should acknowledge that you are entitled to your own opinions and expressions. Recognize your own self worth and the value you add to any relationship. Your self assurance will enable you to be fearlessly and extraordinarily sexy. So....You go girl!

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