A word about orgasms

If you are a man, here's some good news, men can learn to have multiple orgasms as well; by coming close then backing off just before the point-of-no-return several times men can experience all the feelings of an orgasm without having an ejaculation. Some men have a series of small orgasms, some men experience them as bigger orgasms. If you can do this, end the ritual with final orgasm/ejaculation.

Not all men know that most women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm; although there are erotic areas in the vagina most women need the pressure of the pubic bone of their partner against the clitoris or stimulation by hand during intercourse to have orgasm.

It was not my intent to go deeper into this, but I saw a T.V. program about the female orgasm, explaining that many men don't know where to locate the clitoris. In fact the clitoris is a tiny size female penis; it also swells during arousal and it is designed especially for female pleasure. You will find it where the inner lips meet at the top, it looks like a small knob and it desires the same soft caresses with your hand (make it moist with some vaginal fluids), tongue or sucking as the male head of the penis.

Other not so well known female erotic zones are (but not as sensitive as the clitoris): 1) the G-spot, about 1.5 inches inside the vagina, on the front side, you'll recognize it by the rougher texture than the rest of the vagina; when you stimulate the G-spot, at first the woman often feels like urinating, but when this feeling passes, this area will become very sensitive and enable her to have an orgasm with ejaculation 2) a spot more or less opposite the G-spot 3) the spot just above the opening of the urinary tube (just above the vagina).

After orgasm you may wish to confirm your magick with the words: "So mote it be" and to give thanks to God/the Goddess and your partner.

It is important to stay close the first minutes after intercourse with your genitals close together. There are two reasons for this:

After sex magick the sexual fluids of a man and woman are charged with their magical intent; they can etherically absorb this power for their well-being and health through the vaginal walls and the head of the penis.

The now charged sexual fluids can be used to charge an amulet or talisman by smearing some of it on them; for example, if your ritual was for gaining money you can smear it on a coin or paper-money, and then place it on your altar; You can trace the lines of a sigil with the charged fluid, or mix it with wine and drink it with your partner, etc.

In sex magick the charged sexual fluids have become the sacred elixir of life, and are in no way dirty. If however you are carrying a sexual transmittable disease it is best to skip this part.

When you are doing sex magick alone please know that your sexual fluids form a complete sacrament, although they now contain one polarity, not two.

End the ritual with a banishment. The heightened energy of your ritual may have attracted astral beings. Make sure to keep them at a distance by reconfirming your banishment, like for instance a visualized circle of protection.