A woman and her Moon
The days before menstruation, a larger amount of hormones circulate in the female body, not only increasing her emotions but also her magical power. During menstruation this extra power leaves her body; this can give an extra dimension to the elixir, but please be very careful to only use this when the woman is in good health. After all menstruation is also a natural monthly cleaning period for her body.

Not all women feel like having sex during this time. But those who do can feel strongly accepted in all their feminine aspects by having intercourse. Sexual union during (pre)menstruation can often relief the cramps many women experience during their period.

I have not read it in any book, but it's quite logical that the day of ovulation is also an extreme powerful day for a woman, even apart from the fact that she can get pregnant. It is her personal full moon - but don't forget to use a condom, or only do oral sex magick. If however you wish to conceive you can make this a special happening with a lovingly and carefully prepared sex magick ritual - and give your baby a very good start.
Spontaneous rituals
Sometimes your hormones are knocking; there is no time to prepare a ritual but still you wish to direct your sexual energy into magick. Try this:

- quickly imagine a circle of protection

- imagine two burning candles as representation of any ritual space

- dedicate your energy to your spiritual development, with a mantra or magical word.

- enjoy!

- and reconfirm the circle of protection.
Long distance sex magick
For instance you live in London, your partner is on a business-trip in Tokyo and you want to do magick together. Agree (on the phone or email) on a goal, affirmation/visualization/sigil, time to start the ritual and approximate length of it (mind the different time-zones). Visualize a very big circle of protection, covering all the way from London to Tokyo. Then start masturbating, strongly visualizing your partner having sex with you, calling out his/her name from time to time and complete the ritual.
Group sex magick rituals
A group sex magickal act is not a kinky party; see it as a serious dedication of a number of people to a certain goal. The fact that magick works synergistic is a very good reason for a group to practice (sex) magick.

No one in the world can demand you to ever do a sex magickal act against your will.


But you may also consider that social behavior has taught us to regard our bodies and sexual expressions as being sinful, thus keeping us from showing our nudity and sexuality in public. So the big question I'd like to ask, and I don't know the answer, is: how natural is the aversion of many people against group sex?

Group rituals are for advanced sex magicians. Every participant must know how to raise, control and direct energy. They must be determined to work magick with their sexuality; if their aim is to sexually freak out with many partners they will ruin the ritual.

In a group ritual it is absolutely not possible to cross barriers or push on boundaries, the group has to agree on all borders beforehand. If someone does something another member of the group feels uncomfortable with, the whole energy chain will be broken and the ritual will be worthless.

Generally speaking, group rituals can follow the techniques described under solo and duo sex magick. They can use masturbation, intercourse, or form a large oral circle. Of course establishing an atmosphere of contact, trust and openness is very important within a group ritual. A group meditation, holding hands in a circle feeling the energy circulating, or maybe chanting a mantra together are very good to start with.

A larger group will have a leader, a person not participating in the ritual, but spiritually and magically guiding the group. The leader will do the banishment's and take care of the timing and process of the ritual. This gives the group the opportunity to be completely sexually involved, raising enormous energy. The leader will from time to time ask the group to spread the raised energy amongst the group and to focus it into the direction of the chosen goal. The leader will also harmonize the energies by directing them with his will, and raising them if needed, from a place with much energy to a place within the group with less energy. And at the peak of the sexual energy the leader will ask the group to work towards orgasm and channel all their energy into the magical goal.


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